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Janet Louise DeMaria

1945 - 2007

Janet Louise DeMaria, 61, of Barboursville, WV, went to brighten up Heaven on Sunday, April 22, 2007. Funeral services will be conducted at 11:00 A.M. Wednesday, April 25, 2007 at the Wallace Funeral Home &Chapel by Father Bert Valdes. Burial will be in White Chapel Memorial Gardens. She was born June 4, 1945 in Sutton, WV, a daughter of the late Ellis and Virgie Harris James. She was also preceded in death by a son, Dennis DeMaria, her stepfather, Ralph James and one brother, Donald James. She was a registered nurse at the Veterans Administration Medical Center. She is survived by her husband, Sam DeMaria, one daughter, Denise Lemasters and her partner, Amy Price of Barboursville; three sisters, Lorene Kitrinos and Greta James, both of Pittsboro, North Carolina, and Kaaren Connor of Sutton, WV; one brother, Forrest James of El Paso, Texas; one granddaughter, Alexis Lemasters; several nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Friends may call from 7-9 P.M. Tuesday at the Wallace Funeral Home, Barboursville. Online condolences may be expressed to the family at www.timeformemory.com/wallace. Janet had a zest for life and a love that was neverending for her family and friends. She was a dedicated and highly skilled registered nurse. Each patient was special to her. Her laughter and childlike innocence has enriched our lives and will always remain in our heart.

There are currently 55 condolences.

Paul & Donna Sirianni Smokeyman3@msn.com Tuesday May 1, 2007 at 1:48 PM
Mr D, I just heard form your nephew Jim Pulice aobut your loss. My heart and PRAYERS go out to you. If there is anything we can do let us know, please.. Always your freinds, Paul and Donna ps Jim knows me as Tony.

Richard James thejamesgang232@adelphia.net Monday April 30, 2007 at 6:40 PM
This message is especially for Greta James: We were sorry to read of Janet's death in the Braxton Democrat. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Sandra Kacinec Gans Sunday April 29, 2007 at 2:40 PM
Sam, You and your family are in my prayers.I hear of Janet's passing this morining at Mass at Immaculate Conception Parish in Clarksburg, WV. I went to St. Mary's School of Nursing with Janet. janet brought much laughter and many happy moments to her classmates during our three years in the "nunnery".

Greta James (Janet's sister) hostafarm@earthlink.net Saturday April 28, 2007 at 9:13 PM
Thanks to all of you who have been leaving messages about Janet. It means a lot to us (family) to know that you appreciated her sense of humor, her compassion for others, her love for family and friends, and her dedication to the nursing profession. It helped us meeting those of you at the viewing and at the funeral. Her unmistakable laugh will still be heard!

Brooke Bennett Cress brooke.a.cress@ngc.com Friday April 27, 2007 at 12:06 PM
Denise: My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you find peace and comfort through your family and friends during this time.

Shirley Kyer Friday April 27, 2007 at 11:17 AM
Sam, sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers that God will hold you close in this time of need.

barbara walls parrish Thursday April 26, 2007 at 7:57 PM
Sam,i was so shocked to hear about Janet,I didnt know just what to say in my first e-mail.I was your neighbor and you were both my friends.she will be missed by all of us.I worked with her at the VA.My prayers are with you.Barb.

barbara walls parrish barbp6@verizon.net Thursday April 26, 2007 at 4:22 PM
Sam,i am so sorry to hear about your loss.I am Mikes mother.I lost my husband in 2005.

heather humphrey hn1116@hotmail.com Thursday April 26, 2007 at 8:46 AM
Mr. Demaria, I want to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your very dear wife. You both brightened my life when I worked at montys pizza, I may have not have met you in person but you both have a special memory to keep in my heart.

Natalie Jarman Glamourrrrrr@aol.com Thursday April 26, 2007 at 2:55 AM
Janet was a lovely person. She touched a lot of peoples lives. I am so sorry for your suffering and loss. My heart goes out to all of you. Although she is not with you in body..the James spirit is strong and will live on forever... Best, Natalie Jarman (Chris' friend from California)

Angela R. Smith hipAng64@adelphia.net Thursday April 26, 2007 at 1:53 AM
Sam and Denise, I am so sorry to hear about Janet. She and my Mom were the best of friends. I know she is in heaven with Dennis. My prayers are with you. Love Always, Angela

Lorie (McVey) Bane Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 11:30 PM
Sam and Denise, My dad called to tell me about Janet. I am so sorry for your loss. You both were my second parents growing up, and I have such wonderful memories singing, laughing, swimming and hanging out with you both and Denise. My prayers are with you!! LOVE, LORIE

Jack Smyth JSmyth@SmythFivenson.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 10:28 PM
Our regrets at the passing of another Sutton southside kid. Remembrances of a very young Janet are among my childhood memories. Our families were quite close during our school years continuing over the years with Donald. We know the difficulty of a loss of a sibling this year having lost Steve only months ago. Bless you all.

Tiffany Miller tiffick@suddenlink.net Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 10:11 PM
Sam, Denise and Alexis--I was shocked and saddend to hear about your loss. Denise, I know I have told you before that I think you have wonderful parents. They were always so unconditional in their love--your mother was very special. I know she will be missed. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers! If there is anything you need, know that I am still always here! Tiffany Miller

Donna Skidmore Miller donna.s.miller@verizon.net Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 7:17 PM
My condolences to Janet's family. I remember with great fondess the many good times I shared with her and her sisters at Sutton High School -- cheerleading, band, parties, and her radiant smile. May God look over you and give you peace during this difficult time. Donna Skidmore Miller

Bill & Karen 'Harris' Bright karenbright2003@yahoo.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 6:48 PM
Bill & I extend our heartfelt sympathy to you all, including the sisters which we knew. I graduated in 63' with Janet and have lots of wonderful memories of our elem. & hs years and our youth group at Sutton Baptist. I pray God will wrap His arms around each of you as you mourn her lively presence in your lives.

Shafak Acunbay Sacunbay@hotmail.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 5:26 PM
Dear Kitrinos and DeMaria Family I'm so so sorry. I'll prayer for her.

Lois Bartlett Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 1:48 PM
What a blessing Janet was. We worked together at St Joe. I am sorry we did not keep in touch after you moved. She will always hold a special place in my heart. What a loving and kind person she was. We shared a lot of laughs and tears together. Hold her memory close to your hearts and remember she will always be in your heart.

Martha (Marty) Moore Polon mmoorepolon@hotmail.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 1:20 PM
Dear Sam and Denise: My condolances, prayers, thoughts and heart go out to you. My heart is broken that she is gone and even though we didn't visit often she was and will always remain in my heart. She was a joy and will remain fondly in my memory. My love to you all. Marty

Tamera "Tam Craig" Riggs Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 12:43 PM
Sam & Denise Many friends and family like myself are afraid to write at times like this and stay silent, only thinking of what we would like to say but afraid the words won’t come out the way we mean or want. We all wish we could find the words to that would relieve a small portion of your pain. Now more than ever you will be aware of how much Janet was loved by so many. Her eagerness to help anyone in need, to console when you were hurting, to give you her most cherished gift.. HER SMILE. Although we can’t touch her we will feel her presents forever. Please know you and your family are loved very much and you have to continue your life passing on what Janet has instilled in you… Love

Earlene Workman earlene.workman@lpnt.net Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 12:07 PM
Sam and Denise my htoughts are with you and I wish Janet and I had kept in touch she was so much fun to work with at ST.JOSEPH I hang my snowflakes on my CHristmas tree every year since she gave them to me and will allways remember Janet as I continue to do every Christmas

Mavadell (Shaver) Bailey mdskeen@hotmail.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 11:03 AM
My first memories of Janet are of her as a vibrant teenager. Being a friend of her little sister, Kaaren, I remember thinking how absolutely wonderful she was. I can still see her smile and hear her voice. I also remember visiting her and Sam when they were first married (in Parkersburg)and recall how happy she was. I know that she will be greatly missed. I will be thinking about all of you. Sincerely, Mavadell Bailey

TONI MARIE tonipill@hotsheet.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 10:54 AM
SAM AND DENISE-- MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. I'M SORRY I COULD NOT BE WITH YOU TODAY BUT I AM THERE IN SPIRT. JESS WAS A FUN PERSON. IREMEMBER HER LAUGH AND EATING POPCORN WITH MILK IN THE MORNINGS. SHE GAVE ME ALOT OF GREAT MEMORIES WHILE I WAS GROWING UP AND WE VISITED. WE CAN NOT BRING BACK THE PAST BUT WE WILL ALWAYS HAVE OUR MEMORIES. WITH ALL MY LOVE TONI MARIE.

Beth Maness Befferbee@peoplepc.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 10:53 AM
You are all family to me and it is a pleasure to call you my friends. Please know that I am here for anything that you need and that we all love you.

Tim Amos timamos@goldenamos.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 10:45 AM
Sam & Denise: I am very sorry for the loss of such a wonderful wife and mother. I will never forget Janet's fantastic sense of humor and her ability to relate to people, young and old. Tim Amos

Diana Harper Poe poefarm22@aol.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 10:32 AM
To Sam and Denise: There are a million things I could say to you today about Janet - all the wonderful childhood and young adult memories - there are a million of them. What I want you to carry with you is how very much I loved her, she was a wonderful friend to me, she was always bright and upbeat. A smart girl, an unselfish girl, a kind girl. When it's all said and done, what I want you to know is that she was kind to me every single day that we spent together, always, always; never a harsh word to me. She was a great friend and I know she will have many stars in her crown for how she treated all of us. I am devastated and will always miss her. I loved her and I love you. Diana Harper Poe

Jerry Nelson Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 10:17 AM
I worked with Janet on 5 south and she will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family in this sorrowful time. May God bless you all.

Kristen Meadows Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 9:53 AM
I am a nursing student at Marshall University and I also work as a student at the VA. Janet was such a positive influence for me during time I spent in the hospital for school. She always had a smile on her face or something to joke about. You could tell she loved being a nurse and cared for the veterans she served. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Deedee Santilli Leighty ssantill@columbus.rr.com Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 9:47 AM
Dear Sam and Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. Denise, your brother Dennis and my brother Jonathon, were good friends growing up in Clarksburg. Sam, so many of my memories of Immaculate Conception Parish include your singing. May the peace of Christ comfort you during your grief. You will remain in my prayers. Deedee

Andrea (Ware) Martin andreamartin@suddenlink.net Wednesday April 25, 2007 at 9:42 AM
Sam and Denise. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are both in my thoughts and prayers

George Marshall no1sped@aol.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 10:42 PM
I am so sorry to hear about Janet. I can't be with you but my thoughts and prayers are with you Love, George

Michael Walls Wallsrrt@verizon.net Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 10:27 PM
I am just shocked of the news here. Sam, you and Janet were both like parents to me. I will always remember your kindness and your generosity to trust my judgment as a teen growing up in your neighborhood. As you know your son will always be a found memory of mine and now so will "Mrs Demaria" my friend Janet. Although I cannot visit during this time of trial, please know that you and your family will be in my prayers. There yet another empty place in the soul of Edgewood. Please feel free to keep in touch, for you are truly missed here. Your friend from Clarksburg, Mike

Charlie and Sandy Snyder tiny26187@yahoo.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 10:25 PM
To the DaMaria family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

bob walls fmsavina@aol.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 10:18 PM
this is your school friend from victory and edgewood addition.sorry to learn about janet.

Rick, Michele & Heather Beaty mbeaty@casinternet.net Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 10:11 PM
We wish to express our deepest sympathy to Sam and Denise at this most difficult time. I had worked with Janet for several years and she was, indeed, a tribute to her profession! You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Maddy McCallister Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 9:35 PM
Aleix I am very sorry about your grandmother. My mom said that you are a loud to come over when ever you want!

Elaine (Hamilton) Grippin egrippin@cs.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 9:12 PM
Denise, So sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. My family & I wanted you to know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time. (I wasn't sure if you would remember me since it's been over 20 years but, I still remember you)My family & I wanted you to know you & your family are in our thoughts and prayers. E-mail me sometime if you'd like.Elaine (Hamilton) Grippin, Fred & Helen Hamilton egrippin@cs.com

Rose Ann Cowger RDCowger@juno.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 9:03 PM
Dear Sam and Denise, We are so sorry about your Janet. I remember her for her laughter and fun. We are praying for you all.

Rivka Jacobs Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 8:52 PM
To the family of Janet DeMaria: I was a Marshall University student nurse last fall, doing my clinical time at the VA, and Janet was so helpful and patient and kind to us! She really tried to make our clinical experience as positive as possible, despite her own work-load and other responsibilities. She's one of the few nurses who stood out for me, during my clinical experience. I wanted to thank her personally, but never got around to it, and now all I can do is let you-all know how kind she was to us nursing students. My condolences to you for your loss. Janet helped a lot of people, and left a part of herself with all the nursing students she encouraged.

Susan Imes, RN, MSN imes@marshall.edu Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 8:42 PM
As a nursing instructor for Marshall University, one of my greatest joys was watching Janet teach the senior nursing students about nursing. She was very concerned they feel welcome and appreciated. We would tease her and call her "Flo" after Florence Nightingale...she so loved being a nurse. Several years ago she started a tradition (at the end of the fall semester) of presenting to each student a handmade crocheted snowflake for their Christmas tree. She would laughingly tell them "In life you meet alot of people...some are flakes; and you just met your first flake"; meaninging Janet. She touched many students and all have very fond memories of their time at the VAMC and especially Janet's smlile and enthusiasm about nursing. I can't believe she won't be there in August when I bring my next group of senior nursing students. I hope I have conveyed just how much Janet was admired, appreciated and loved by myself and all my students over the past 8 years. I am so sad for us...she truly will be missed. Please accept my sincere condolences.

John & Yvonne White Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 7:40 PM
Please accept our concern in this time of loss.

Judy Adams rjadams2@alltel.net Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 7:09 PM
Let me say how so very sorry I am to Sam and Denise for your loss. I have worked with Janet over the years at the VAMC. Janet always gave of herself to others. She was always concerned with her patients, and always put their needs first. She was a great friend to everyone who new her. She always had a smile and a kind word.Sometimes we would have our break at work at the same time even tho we worked in different departments.It was nice to just sit down for a moment and collect your thoughts. Not Janet, always talked about either a patient and how worried she was or about a co-worker that she had'nt saw for awhile. Everyone else came first to her. But,then that was Janet. There was a memorial on 5 South today at the VA. So many people came together to honor our friend, our co-worker. Hearing Carl Beatty tell stories,brought smiles to our faces, with wonderful comforting words from Chaplin Rose. It was such a wonderful heartfelt time that we could all come together and show how much we loved Janet, and that she'll always be remembered with a beautiful smile on her face. I love you my friend.

Sue Meyers Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 7:07 PM
My prayers are with you and your family at this time in the passing of this wonderful person and friend to many. She was there many times for me when I needed someone to talk to but of course that was the kind of person Janet was. She always lifted my spirits up and told me things would get better. I'll truly miss seeing her wonderful smile. May God be with you all at this difficult time.

Jonathon Santilli santillidc@msn.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 6:08 PM
Sam and Denise, It is with sadness that I write this as well as joy in knowing that Dennis and his mom are again together in a much better place. I still treasure all the times that I spent with your family as Dennis and I were growing up. Know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. May the love and peace of our Lord be with you all during this time and in the future, Jonathon Santilli

Gib and Marsha Jackson Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 5:48 PM
Sam and Denise, we are so "shocked" and very very sorry to hear about Janet. We have a lot of good memories and some sad, when you lived across the street and can't believe that this as happened to Janet. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers and please take care, love Gib and Marsha

Tia (Beaty) Williamson shadowsgrl@casinternet.net Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 3:57 PM
Sam and Denise, I wish to send the DeMaria family my condolences. Denise baby sat me when I was younger and her family has been good friends of mine. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Steve and Sharrey Craig Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 3:53 PM
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your angel. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers in the days ahead. If we can help in any way please let us know. Love and Prayers, Steve and Sharrey Craig and Family

Mike and Ginny Gorrell, Scott and Tammy ginny.gorrell@msbcbs.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 3:48 PM
Sam and Denise, Our thoughts are with you. Sorry that we are unable to make it for the services. Please get in touch with us. I think of Janet daily. She was such a friend. I tell everyone how she took care of me when I had breast surgery. Mike and I was just saying last week that we needed to get in contact with you. Tammy and Scott sends their love and prayers also. Tammy is in Ft. Lewis, WA.

Tara Porter tleigh2005@alltel.net Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 3:28 PM
I worked with Janet at the VAMC for several years. Janet was an excellent nurse and loving friend. She made everyone feel so special. She will be missed by coworkers, patients, and students. Her family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Vickie Prince Fahey Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 3:18 PM
Sam, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. A wonderful mother, wife and friend to all. I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking and praying for you . Vickie Fahey

Lou Ann Wine Canfield hanfjhorne@verizon.net Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 2:13 PM
Dear Sam and Denise, Am so sorry to hear about Janet. All my love and prayers are with you. When you have time, please write me. Love and hugs, Lou Ann

Ruth Ann Huddle Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 1:53 PM
Dear Sam and Denise,So sorry for your loss. When I tried to send a message earlier today---she wasn't listed at this funeral home. So glad I can get through to you now. With such understanding sympathy, Ruth Ann

Chaplain Oscar Rose at the VA Medical Center Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 1:16 PM
Janet was a very good team worker with Chaplains on 5 South at the VA Medical Center. Janet greatly cared about the spiritual needs of her pt's as well as their health needs. Janet would inform me of patient needs and concerns. Janet had a very good sense of humor and also had a compassioniate and caring spirit to patients and families. I was deeply saddened upon hearing of her passing away. All the nursing staff and others who worked with Janet were in shock upon hearing of her sudden death. My prayers are with Sam and the family as they prepare for the funeral. Janet was always very kind and helpful to me for the many years that I knew her. May she rest in peace and find the eternal happiness she so deserves with God. May she rest in the kind and loving hands of the Lord. Today, on 4/24/07 at 11:00AM, at the VA medical Center, we had a memorial service for Janet in the 5 South conference room. Over 65 nurses and other employees were in attendance. We express our deep grief and pain over Janet's death. We shared the many accomplishments that Janet provided in her profession as a nurse. The strong attendance for the Memorial on 5 South floor shows how many individual lives that Janet touched in such a good way. May the Lord be with all of Janet's family durng this ifficult time. My prayers and thought are with the family and friends. Chaplain Oscar Rose 4/24/07

Joanna Billy joeylb600@yahoo.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 12:57 PM
Sam and Denise, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I have many fond memories of your wife/mom - especially those at the softball field. May you find peace and comfort through God and your family and friends.

Tim Uppole tauppole@yahoo.com Tuesday April 24, 2007 at 12:53 PM
I can't believe that someone so full of life is gone so soon. I worked briefly with Janet at Worthington Manor and I will remember her always.

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