Time For Memory

Joseph Mark Elswick

1980 - 2006

Joseph Mark “Joey” Elswick, 25, of Point Pleasant, WV, loving husband of Bethany Lauren Beckett Elswick, achieved the ultimate victory in Christ on Friday, September 29, 2006 at CAMC. A celebration of his life will be conducted at 11:00 A.M. Monday, October 2, 2006, officiated by Reverend Steve Willis and Dr. Richard Sargent at Main Street Baptist Church in Point Pleasant, WV, where Joey served as youth pastor. Graveside services will be conducted at 3:30 P.M. at Kanawha Valley Memorial Gardens in Glasgow, WV. He was born in Charleston, WV, on November 4, 1980 to Rev. Dale and Connie Griffith Elswick, of Glasgow. Joey was a graduate of Riverside High School and University of Rio Grande, in Rio Grande, OH. He was currently attending Palmer Theological Seminary in Ripley, WV, where he was obtaining his Masters of Divinity. Joey was musically gifted, playing guitar, drums, singing, and composing songs. He loved WV American Baptist Camp at Cowen, WV, first as a camper, then serving as counselor, and music coordinator for Mid-High Camp and Jr. High 2. He was drummer for the band, Under Authority for several years. He enjoyed his work in youth ministry serving Big Chimney Baptist Church from 2001 to 2003 and then at Main Street Baptist from 2003 until present and was a former member of Glasgow Volunteer Fire Dept. He was a wonderful husband and a very proud soon-to-be father. Survivors also include a sister and brother-in-law, Cher and Shawn Szerokman; brother and sister-in-law, Jeff and Melanie Elswick all of Glasgow; beloved nieces and nephew, Peyton, Jacob, and Alexandra Elswick; and Mallory Szerokman; in-laws, Brent and Lee Anne Beckett, of Barboursville, WV; sister-in-law, Kaitlyn (J.P. Simpkins, fiancé); brother-in-law, Sean, also of Barboursville; and a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and youth. All will celebrate and remember the spirit of this godly man who was a disciple of Christ. Joey continues to give through organ donation and we should live by his example. In lieu of flowers, please send contributions to WV American Baptist Camp Cowen, P. O. Box 1019, Parkersburg, WV 26102. Visitation will be on Sunday, October 1, 2006 at the Wallace Funeral Home, Barboursville, from 5-9 P.M. and after 10:00 AM Monday at the church. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.timeformemory.com/wallace

There are currently 86 condolences.

Dean Bibb Tuesday May 19, 2015 at 5:14 AM
Thinking of you today my friend and googled you. Thanks for everything.

BJ or Betty Jo BJZotter@aol.com Monday October 16, 2006 at 5:43 PM
I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through at this time. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, Connie. Love, BJ

Tara Tyler tarat@nationaltravel.com Monday October 9, 2006 at 6:00 PM
Joey was a wonderful person, who blessed many lives. May peace be with your family in your time of sadness.

Erica (Delia) Heilmann vicariousvintage@verizon.net Friday October 6, 2006 at 4:28 PM
Bethany, Brent, and Lee Anne-I know the power of the love and faith in your family. I am thankful that I got to experience it firsthand when you opened your home to me at the end of my senior year. In my mind's eye I can still see 8-yr-old Brittany and her warm smile. I was so grieved to hear of your loss, but I know the Lord is with you. John, Julia, and I send our love, thoughts and prayers to you. Bethany, may God hold you and your precious baby in his arms so you can feel his loving and healing touch. --Erica

Lindsay Wysong luckiducki@insight.rr.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:53 AM
Bethany, I haven't seen you since high school but I feel terrible sadness for you. May the Lord be with you and comfort you during your time of need.

The Creasys Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:24 AM
For Bethany and her sweet baby girl, for Joey's parents and brother and sister, and for the Beckett family - our family has been in constant prayer for you all. So many times I've been at a loss for words in this time, both when I've seen you and when I pray. I am grateful that the Lord knows my heart. And I hope that you know our hearts, too. We love you so much and we are here for you, whatever we can supply in your need. - Greg, Leigh Ann and those Creasy boys

Faith Haynie Cole fcole@carolina.rr.com Thursday October 5, 2006 at 9:15 AM
Connie, my Dad forwarded the sad news to me about the death of your son. As I read, a flood of wonderful memories of our own childhood came rushing back. I often think of your father and how kind he was to me. I do not have children, but I am sure there are no words to describe how it feels to lose your son. How proud I am that you had a son who loved and served God. What a talented and accomplised young man! I will pray for peace and comfort for you and your family. Fondly, Faith

Jennifer Basford-Compton jennifer.compton@ticketmaster.com Thursday October 5, 2006 at 12:46 AM
Dale, Connie, Cher, Jeff and Bethany: I am so sorry for your loss and I will never forget Joey. I'll never forget the road trips that Cher and I would go on to "tag along" and watch Joey and his band play. He was so gifted when it came to music. We had such a great time on those road trips, playing our "movie title and song games" in the car to pass the time. I know it is hard to understand why God would take Joey away from those who love him, but he has better plans for him. Joey touched everyone he came in contact with. He was the most godly man I had ever met and that's what I will always remember about him. Cher, you know how to contact me. I know you need time right now, but I am here for you and I will always be here for you. If you all need anything, please call me 533-1378. You are in my prayers.

Erica(Morris)Thornton gertie6480@yahoo.com Wednesday October 4, 2006 at 6:41 PM
Bethany- It has been a few years, but we went to Cabell Midland together. I am so sorry to hear about Joey. You are in my thoughts and prayers. It was a shock to learn what had happened. Especially when I realized that you were attending Main Street Baptist in Point Pleasant, and I live now in Gallipolis Ferry, WV. May God give you strength and all his mercies, and may you never forget His love for you. If you ever need anything please feel free to let me know!

Cameron King suavefranc@aol.com Tuesday October 3, 2006 at 6:57 PM
Bethany, I cry for you as I write this. There are no words. There is only God; let Him comfort you. Sarah and I are praying. We won't forget you. --Cameron

Edie Adams (First Baptist Church of Tyler Mt.) snoopy3856@yahoo.com Tuesday October 3, 2006 at 12:04 PM
Dale Elswick and Family: I just found out Monday. I only met Joey a few times in the classes several of us have taken through the Asso. We all always enjoyed having him attend the classes. I can not begin to imagine your loss. It is not easy to accept God's plan sometime. He has better plans for Joey. I remember the planning of his marrage. Please let his young bride and mother to be know she is in our hearts and prayers and Joey will live on in the little girl that is on her way. Deepest Sympathy Edie

Chris, Kim, Candice & Jessalyn Parsons kimsturm@yahoo.com Tuesday October 3, 2006 at 11:33 AM
We are so sorry for your loss and the tremendous pain you must be going through. You are in our thoughts and prayers and we are sending a contribution to Camp Cowen in honor of him. Love, Chris, Kim, Candice & Jessalyn Parsons

Vanessa (Markham) Wolfe Tuesday October 3, 2006 at 11:19 AM
This message is for Cher Szerokman and the Elswick family - you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. Cher, I know it has been a while since we have talked, but if there is anything I can do, please call me anytime - 965.8090 Vanessa (Markham) Wolfe

Diane Heck and family dianeheck@yahoo.com Tuesday October 3, 2006 at 9:09 AM
You will all be continually in my prayers. These days will be difficult at best missing Joey. I want to tell you what a wonderful tribute the visitation and funeral were for his life. The two hour waiting line to pay our respects speaks volumes of who Joey was and how many lives he touched. Just a few words about the funeral before I close... what an experience! Happy, sad, bittersweet. What an awesome God we serve. God bless you. I love you.

Kathy McGhee mkkrmcghee@aol.com Tuesday October 3, 2006 at 8:09 AM
To the families of Joey Elswick. I am very sorry about your loss. I didn't know Joey but had heard a lot about him and his wonderful message he always shared about his love for the Lord. Joey lived his life richly and was truly blessed. I grew up in Glasgow, my grandpa lived on 3rd Ave. His name was Herman Thomas and I went to Glasgow Grade School in 1960 and 1961. I lost my youngest and only son this year in February. He was 25 years old and would of been 26 this past May. I don't blame God for his accident but I do feel the fall of man from Adam and Eve is why all this happens to us. My son was also an Organ Donor and his life lives on too. I know the walk your walking and even though I'm walking the same path I don't know what to say to any of you. I am very sorry that this happened to the family but I do send my most sincere condolences out to you all. Hold on to his memories for they will never leave you. My phone number is 304-755-2044 if you would ever want to call and talk. We can cry and share the love of our sons together. May God Bless You All! In His Name, Kathy [Walls] McGhee

Tiffany Casto Monday October 2, 2006 at 10:41 PM
Elswick Family:I was so sorry when I heard about Joey. I have not seen him in many years but he made a huge impact on me when we met. He was one of the most Christian men I have even known. You could just look at him and know he loved the Lord. I know that even now God will use his life to bless people. My heart goes out to you all and espically Bethany and the new baby. I will continue praying for your family. God Bless each of you!!

Rebecca Mutter rmutter@excite.com Monday October 2, 2006 at 8:48 PM
Elswick family, I am so sorry for your loss. I went to Kodiak, AK on a mission trip with Dale and Joey in 1999 and was totally amazed at Joey's huge heart for Christ. He had a way to make every smile and laugh no matter what task we were completing. I can remember Joey playing his guitar with the other youth gathered around listening and singing. Joey was such an inspiritation to me in my walk with CHRIST and I'm sure to many, many more. You are all in my prayers and if there is anything I can do, I'm here. Bethany, I pray that GOD will continue to keep His arms around you and the baby.

Roger & Carol Adams Monday October 2, 2006 at 8:17 PM
What a wonderful time of praise and remembering today! We cried and laughed. Bethany, there are no words available to express how deeply we all hurt for you, but we do know that with God's love and assurance, you will get through this. We cannot imagine the hurt you are feeling. We will be praying for you and your little girl. If you EVER need us for ANYTHING - we're only a phone call away. We love you. Roger & Carol

Randy & Gerri Baker rabake@hotmail.com Monday October 2, 2006 at 7:36 PM
Dale and Connie, we love you.We are so sorry for your lost and we are praying for you. Our Pastor lost his 21 year old daughter a year ago.We serve a God who is in control. He will see you though this and keep you strong. Place your trust in him. You guys are welcome to come up and visit with us anytime you would like. My number is 304-262-8635.IN CHRIST Randy and Gerri.

Gini and TJ Roach country_girl_6100@yahoo.com Monday October 2, 2006 at 6:39 PM
To the family, it was a shock to hear about Joey. As his name was lifted up into prayer, angels were at his mercy. We hate to see him leave this place we are at, but we all know that he is up in the golden palace waiting on us. Our sympathy goes out to all in the family. We did not know Joey personally, but we knew the great people that surrounded his life. Love and Prayers...

The Smith Family (Sabreanna) dalena1@verizon.net Monday October 2, 2006 at 5:47 PM
we just wanted to send our condolences to your family. Joey has been an inspiration to my daughter at Main Street Baptist Church. He is truly an angel, and I know he is watching over us all. Our family is praying for you all and we are very deeply sorry for your loss.

Jessica Beverly momto3bevs@aol.com Monday October 2, 2006 at 3:52 PM
Dear Elswick Family, I do not know you personally, but your story has touched my life. I attended Beth Moore's ladies conference last weekend, and we took time to pray for one prayer request--your Joey. 11,000 women were praying in one accord, and although this is so hard to under-stand, even for outsiders, we know it has to be God's will. If prayer could have saved his life, I feel it would have. I just happened to see of his passing in the paper, and my heart goes out to you. Please know that a lot of thoughts and prayers are going up for you. You can rest in the peace of knowing where he is and that you will see him again! Praise God!

Stephanie and Jeremy Martin and Nikki McCarthy Monday October 2, 2006 at 2:48 PM
Bethany, Connie, Dale, Cher, and Jeff: We are truly sorry for your loss. Joey has touched so many lives, especially Nikki's. She is so proud to be a part of the youth at MSBC. No words can take away the pain that each person Joey touched is feeling right now. May GOD bless you and give you strength during this difficult time. We shall see him again someday and until we meet him on the golden streets he will be forever looking down upon us.

Erin Brown Monday October 2, 2006 at 1:53 PM
Bethany, I am so sorry this has happened. I pray that God's loving arms wraps around you and comforts you. You will be in my prayers.

Melissa Scott-Manchester missa123m@aol.com Monday October 2, 2006 at 1:10 PM
Bethany, You might know me better if I just come out and tell you who I am. I will give you a hint. I used to change your diapers in Williamsburg Colony. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you ever need anything please call me or e-mail.

GAYLE YOUNG Monday October 2, 2006 at 12:26 PM
Joey made a high impact on our lives@ Big Chimney Baptist. His upbeat nature & enthusiasm brought great joy to our lives. May God comfort & strengthen the family during this time of heartache!

Lynn (Elswick) Toby Monday October 2, 2006 at 10:44 AM
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I am sorry I could not be there. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will pray that God ease your grief and remain near you in this time of loss.

Barbara Gertz Monday October 2, 2006 at 10:42 AM
Connie and Dale With my deepest Sympathy. I will always remember Joey He was a very special young man Love Barbara

Susan Foster Monday October 2, 2006 at 10:09 AM
Cher you and your family are in my thought's & prayer's, just let me know if I can be of any help. I love you.

Becky (Fox) Matthews Monday October 2, 2006 at 9:27 AM
Connie, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. It has been so long since we have seen each other. My prayres are with you. Sincerely, Becky

Angela (Drake) Smith Monday October 2, 2006 at 9:21 AM
I went to school with Joey and know that he is truly a great person! The teens at my church have also worshipped with Joey at Camp Cowen and talk about him all the time. I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your families and that Joey has and will continue to touch many lives!

Mary Kidd and Family Monday October 2, 2006 at 9:10 AM
Dear Connie, Dale, and Family: Just a note to let you know I am thinking of your family. I know that through your faith in God and with time, the pain will ease. Joey I know was a wonderful example of how we all should live and that will always be with everyone he has touched. I know this is a very difficult time, and I sure that he would want you to remain strong for your familly and continue all your wonderful work in the church. I wish that my children could have known him. Connie, I am so glad you stop by the house. While time passes and we do not always remain in touch with people, I will always remember your kindness and being there with me through some very difficult times. Please know I am thinking of your family. I hope to see you soon. Love, Mary

Conn Monday October 2, 2006 at 8:44 AM


Jenny Monday October 2, 2006 at 8:29 AM
Dear Joey, I can't believe you're gone now. I know you're looking down on us from heaven and that one day we'll see you again. You touched the life of ever person you've met and you will never be forgotten. Thank you for making an impact on my life and thank you for sharing the word of God with so many. We all love you and we all miss you but I know we should rejoice because you've gone on to such a better place. I'll miss your guitar playing, your magic tricks and our talks about our favorite christian bands especially Jars of Clay, you know Five Candles and Tea and Sympathy were two of my fave songs. I'll see you again one day.

Dawn Addesa Monday October 2, 2006 at 8:14 AM
Dear Bethany, You don't know me, but I was at the Beth Moore conference on 9/22 when Beth told us about your husbands accident and 11,000 people prayed for his healing, as well as for you and your family. This is not the outcome we all hoped and prayed for , but we have to trust in God and know that He is sovereign. Please know that you are being lifted up before the throne, not only by your friends and family, but by sisters in Christ that you will probably never meet this side of heaven. I let my sister know about Joey and she lives in Virginia. Her church will be praying for you and your baby as well. May God's perfect peace and comfort abound in your heart. In Christ's love, Dawn Addesa

The Gobles, Ron, Bethany, Nathaniel & Andrew Monday October 2, 2006 at 8:07 AM
Bethany, Brent, & Lee Anne; We so desperately wish that we could be there with you. There are no words that can express our sorrow for your loss. You guys are family. You mean the world to us. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you ALWAYS!! It is in times like these that Abba Father can mean so much. Just be still and let our heavenly Daddy, wrap you in his arms. Hopefully we can come for a visit soon!! Love, Ron & Bethany

Nan Richards Monday October 2, 2006 at 8:01 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Joey, but I know the Beckett family.

Debbie Doss Monday October 2, 2006 at 6:32 AM
Bethany and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Joey truly blessed anyone who had the opportunity to know him.

Charlie and Judith Qualls judahbear97@hotmail.com Monday October 2, 2006 at 2:58 AM
We would like to send our apology for not being able to give our condolensences in person. Our prayers are with all of you. God bless you all.

Angie Williams Monday October 2, 2006 at 12:20 AM
Dear Elswick Family: There are no words to express the sadness I feel. Joey was a wonderful caring person and will be very missed by all that knew him. I hadnt talked to him in years,we went to Riverside together and church, he was full of life and joy and I am sure nothing had changed.He brought happiness to everyone around him and he was one of the greatest Christians I know. May the Lord lead, guide, and direct you in your time of need. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Cathy Gibson-Spalding-Dunlap Sunday October 1, 2006 at 10:20 PM
Dear Elswick Family: I did not know Joey personally, but I know Jeff. Jeff and I went to EMT class years ago and he knew my first husband. My sympathy is extended to your family, and my prayers will include your family during this time. Love and Prayers, Cathy

Kathy Schwneder ( Brandy's mom) joifulheart@yahoo.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 9:58 PM
No words of condolence could be adequate at such a time as this; Joey is with the only one who could solace the shattered heart of the many who loved him so very much. Joey will live forever on this earth in the hearts of all the youth he has touched in his much too short of time here. I once read somwhere about someone who had gone to be with our Savior that God wanted to pick the most beautiful flower from His garden to enjoy for Himself on that sad day of loss. I believe that is so very true about Joey. May you feel the loving embrace of our creator during this time of loss.

Gordon Runyon Jr gordnjr55@hotmail.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 9:51 PM
Bethany, You have my deepest sympathies and prayers for yourself and your unborn child. I know the pain you are going thru as I went thru this some 24years ago with my wife who passed away unexpectedly. You don't know me but I am Sharon Runyon's cousin. My and my familes heart and prayers go out to you. Gordon

Jenna Rae "Ya Skank" McComas mccomas33@marshall.edu Sunday October 1, 2006 at 9:21 PM
My sweet Bethany, I love you, though you have bestowed upon me this awful nickname that never seems to go away. I wanted to come today (Monday), but alas, I have a kidney stone and could not. I love you and the person you have become so much. Getting to counsel with you and see you while I was staffing was really amazing. I thought I would share my favorite Cowen memory of Joey. It was when we were counseling JrHiII, and we were sitting outside the dining hall, playing find the celebrity amoung the campers. Joey saw "Kevin Bacon" everywhere-even shouting "just keep it footloose, man!" at him. We found several ringers that week--Christina Aguilera, Britney Spears, etc. In a few weeks, I would love to have lunch with you or go shopping. Maybe we'll even talk about Big Ed and the Last of the Back Row Mezzos. :-)

Donna Murphy Sigmon dfs123@gmail.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 9:21 PM
Connie, Dale, and family. I am so sorry to hear of Joey's passing. There are no words that I could say to take away your pain, but as you and Joey knew-God does all things for a reason. I'm sure he is walking the streets of gold with the one who he worshipped and loved more than life-Jesus Christ. If there is a time you just need to talk or anything I can do-just let me know. Misti and Tracey said to tell you how sorry they are, and "little David" was very upset. He enjoyed being a part of Joey's life and making the tape "Secure." We only found out today, so we can't be at the service-but you are certainly in our thoughts and prayers. Donna, Misti, Tracey, and David.

Lacey Tucker lacey.tucker@yahoo.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 8:53 PM
Bethany and the rest of the Beckett family.....My words are inadequate, and all the searching for the right thing to say would still leave me speechless. There is nothing i could say that can take the pain away or tell you something you don't already known. The only thing worth value that i can say to you all, especially you Bethany, is that you are in the very deepest part of my heart. Since the accident, ,every single prayer has you and your family wrapped in it!!! I pray that God heals your heart, and gives you some understanding to put some peace in your heart. As is everyone else....i am so deeply sorry for your loss. But for yesterday, ,today, and the many challenges that lie ahead, you are in my heart, my thoughts, and my prayers for a long time to come. I"m praying for your strength when you are weak, to find a smile when there is so much sadness, all the other things that God is capable of doing to heal your hearts. i love you all very dearly!!! Take care!

melinda france melinda893@yahoo.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 7:49 PM
My thoughts and prayers and with you at this terrible time Joey was a wonderful person i havent seen him since we graduated but i know his life touched so many lives and i'm sure his child will carry that sprit on.

Haley and Kyle Ryder Sunday October 1, 2006 at 7:19 PM
We are really sorry for the loss of Joey. He was one of the best Christian man we have ever known. We will both miss him throughtout all the years of Camp Cowen to come. May God be with your family during this time of loss. ~ Haley and Kyle Ryder

Mrs. Frances Young youngyfy@suddenlink.net Sunday October 1, 2006 at 6:54 PM
Dale and Connie: No words can express my sadness at this moment. God has taken two of His precious children (Gil & Joey) home to be with him forever. Although we do not understand the Lord's ways as they are past finding out, we know that He is with us in our valley and he has given me grace and strength that I did not know was possible in this earthly body. My church family has been a wonderful support system for me and they dedicated our church service this morning to Gil. We had one saved today. At the funeral on Friday, we had two of my family members saved. God is moving in these last days and it won't be long now until we will all be together again in heaven while the ages roll. Please know that my prayers are with both of you and also with Bethany. She surely knows what I am going through at this moment. Please pray for my neighbors, Chris and Donna. They were at church this morning and are hoping to be there Wednesday night again. We will be having the Crucifixion reinaction by Dr. David Wood. Please pray that many will come to know the Lord. I hated that we got to know each other under such stressful circumstances, but I loved your family instantly. Keep me also in your prayers.

Krystal Sunday October 1, 2006 at 5:28 PM
I did not know Joey personally, but my boyfriend and my brother were very close to him through Camp Cowen. I am terribly sorry for your loss but thankful for the life he had and the work he did for Jesus Christ. He will be forever missed and I wish I would have had the chance to know him. Prayers are with you all through this difficult time. God bless you and give you comfort for years to come.

Charlie & Keith Anne Basford Sunday October 1, 2006 at 5:13 PM
Keith Anne and I wish to extend our condolence to you for your loss.

Clinton Hayes cmgjhayes@wmconnect.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 4:55 PM
Dear Elswick Family, I'm not sure if you remember me, but I sure remember you. Jeff and I used to be best friends in elementary school at Boomer Christian Academy, untill my family moved away in 1986. I can remember times when Joey wanted to play with Jeff and me so bad, but he was almost too little. I believe the most memorable thing that sticks out in my mind, is Joey wanting to watch "Transformers" so bad that he would cry, just to see a commercial with the Transformers in it. It was over 20 years ago, but it seems like last year. Joey was always the animated one of the family. God bless you all, and I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. Clint Hayes Ringgold, Georgia

Linda Sunday October 1, 2006 at 4:42 PM
Bethany, even though I don't really know you other than meeting you and your wonderful family at the hospital, I just wanted you to know that you, the baby, and your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers! May God be with you and comfort you in this difficult time!

Karen and Steve Yeager syeager3823@charter.net Sunday October 1, 2006 at 4:10 PM
Dear Dale & Connie, I still remember Nov.4,1980 when Connie passed my maternity room on her way to have Joey. I had just had my first baby. Twenty six years later have went by so fast. I can't begin to imagine the pain you two are going through. "I'm sorry" just isn't enough I know right now. Please know that Steve and I as well as our kids Amanda and Paul have had your family on our hearts and in our prayers. Sincere condolences and in christian love, Steve and Karen Yeager

Jessica Ellis Sunday October 1, 2006 at 2:59 PM
I met Joey during our senior year at Riverside. He was always genuine in a world of pretenders. We have lost a great man but God has gained a wonderful angel. Isaiah 57:1,2

Chris Tolley ctolley7339@charter.net Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:54 PM
Joey, I just found out about your tragic passing this morning. I can't explain how saddened I am to know that you're no longer on this Earth. But God's choice to call you home was an excellent one, as you were one of the greatest people I've ever met. Not just at Riverside, but throughout my whole life. To Bethany and the rest of Joey's family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.

the piscopo boys hockeyplayersf@yahoo.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:48 PM
we just want to say sorry joey was a great guy and will be missed we where on the fire deot. togather he will be missed

the piscopo boys Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:47 PM


Jane & Dave Lovejoy Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:41 PM
I did not know Joey but he attended seminar with my son-in-law, Evan Dailey, husband to my daughter Kelli. When I heard about his accident I couldn't get him off my mind and my prayers were with the family. I know that this time is a difficult time as I lost my father just six weeks ago and it is difficult, but with God's presence in our lives it makes it some easier. My He be with you at this time of your loss and know that Joey touched lives you don't even know about through his ministery. God Bless, Jane Lovejoy

Rev. Rick and Nancy Watson rwatson4707@charter.net Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:39 PM
We were very sorry to hear of Joey's passing. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you-we met Joey at Camp Cowen, of course! Living for Jesus, Rick&Nancy Watson

Rev. Rick and Nancy watson Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:35 PM


SCOTTY & AMBER REEVES Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:14 PM
You are in our thoughts and prayers

Vicky Boyd Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:05 PM
My deepest sympathy to both the Elsewick and Beckett families. My children, Melanie Boyd Godden and Dustin Boyd, were associated with Joey through high school band at Dupont and Riverside, as well as church camps, and other Baptist ministries for youth. Joey truly touched so many lives around this area with his humbleness and his smile, his words of encouragement, and his music. I know you are very proud of his life accomplishments, even though his life was short-lived; however, I know you will look forward to seeing him again, and learning of his great rewards with God the Father. Although it is an earthly tragedy, it is a celebration of life with God, and one that we all should look forward too. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, and may God give you peace and comfort until you meet your son again. (Vicky Boyd, Judson Baptist Church - Belle)

Teresa Hardesty and Family Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:00 PM
Dale, Connie, Cher, Jeff, Bethany and family, we just wanted to let you know that our hearts go out to you during your loss. Joey was an inspiration to us all by the way he lived and we love you all. John, Sharon, Teresa, James, Ann and Banyan

Christy Buckley Sunday October 1, 2006 at 12:53 PM
To the Elswick family, I know how special Joey is and he was a great friend to have while growing up. I will never forget him or that infectious smile that he had. I have known him my whole life, and I will misss him terribly. Bethany, you are going to be fine, and that little girl that you are having is going to be a precious reminder of your wonderful husband. I will be praying for your family through this hard time.

Patty & Elbie Thurman Sunday October 1, 2006 at 11:37 AM
Pastor Dale, Connie, Bethany, Cher, Jeff & family: Our thoughts & prayers are for you. We have known grief, but don't know yours. As much as possible we relate with you and ask that at those moments when you need it most, God will give you that peace that surpasses our human understanding. We know about that peace. God be with you. In Christian love & care, Patty & Elbie (Cedar Grove friends)

Tommy & Betty Jo Whittington Smithers WV Sunday October 1, 2006 at 11:22 AM
WE are so sorry of the passing of your son You are in our prayers

Jane and Bob Fleming bellstubul@aol.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 11:01 AM
Connie: We were so sorry to hear of the death of your beloved son. Jane and Bob Fleming

Jane Deer Sunday October 1, 2006 at 10:59 AM
Heaven gained a warrior. Remembering all in our prayers. God is ever so near.

Suzie Bowers Sigley tinker@richwoodwv.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 10:44 AM
Mrs. Elswick I know you won't reconize my name,you don't even know who I am. I am a christain and serving the lord as best I can. From one christian to another I wanted first of all to let you know I am praying for you and your family. The second thing was to share with you the joy my heart felt when I read in your husbands obit. to send contributions to Camp Cowen. I grew up there in the 60's. There was residential homes all the way down to the gate. Every now and then I get HOMESICK and I have to take a drive up there and just have a good cry. I just wanted you to know that from one Baptist Camp lover to another, that you and your family will be always remember in this community for remembering us during your time of greif. I am a member of the First Baptist Church of Richwood, and Camp Cowen is where our youth attend camp. We all thank you from the bottoms of our hearts. May God richly bless you and your family

Scott, Andrea, and Kierson Cunningham cunningham10@marshall.edu Sunday October 1, 2006 at 10:44 AM
Bethany, Elswicks, and Beckett family; We are so sorry for your loss. Joey was one of the greatest guys I had ever met and it is a true honor to have known him. We are praying for all of you and we love you all with all of our hearts. Please feel free to give us a call if you need anything. May God bless you all now and forever.

Samantha Norman Strickland Sunday October 1, 2006 at 10:37 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. Having gone to High School and played in the band with Joey, I know he was truly a great guy. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Chris and Karen Carson kec1805@msn.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 10:13 AM
Bethany and Family, We are deeply sorry for your loss. Our love and prayers extend to you.

anonymous Sunday October 1, 2006 at 9:05 AM
I worked with Joey as soon as he had his accident, I am in the healthcare field. I prayed for him the whole time I was with him, and I have to tell you, I had a wonderful peace, I did not know what his outcome would be, but I do want you to know I felt he was totally at peace, the whole time. I am praying for you and your family and I am so thankful he belonged to the Lord, I cannot say that of others I get to care for. May the Lord bless and keep you.

Rick Tench Sunday October 1, 2006 at 8:51 AM
We have been acquainted for such a short time, but I have already grown to love you guys. Joey was special, and his godly influence will go through the generations as he has touched so many lives. To his family, my deepest condolences in your loss, although we know that Joey is in his home in Heaven now, we will miss him until we see him again. To his wife, Bethany you have become part of our family, and if ever there is anything that we can help you with, we would be honored. The love and concern you guys showed my family in times of need will always be appreciated. We cry, we question, we grieve, but we grieve in the knowledge that one day we will be reunited with Joey, never to part again.

Tarah (Adkins) Petersen Sunday October 1, 2006 at 8:47 AM
Bethany, I am so very sorry for your loss. Continue to trust in God and he will carry you through this difficult time in your life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your unborn child. If you need anything please do not hesitate to contact me, day or night. Please remember... when you see only one set of footprints He is carrying you.

Mallory Schweitzer mschweit@mix.wvu.edu Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:35 AM
Bethany, the Becketts, and the Elswicks...I want you to know how much you all, and Joey, have touched my life. I love you all, and I am praying for you constantly. You have such amazing faith and strength. Please know that if you need anything, we are all mroe than glad to help. I am sorry I couldn't be there. I love you all.

Jack Shea weronewerone@aol.com Sunday October 1, 2006 at 1:07 AM
Bethany and family, I am truthly sorry for your loss and you will be in my thoughts and prays for days to come.

Jim & Peggy Baden Saturday September 30, 2006 at 11:10 PM
Bethany, Brent, Leigh Ann, Kaitlyn & Sean, Our hearts reach out to each of you during this time. We know that you feel the love & support, but please remember in the weeks & months ahead that we are a phone call away. We love you and will save our hugs for you.

Paul and Joyce Jordan pljordanjr@aol.com Saturday September 30, 2006 at 10:40 PM
In times like this, it is always so nice and reassuring that your love ones know Chirst as their Lord and Saviour. With this in our mind and heart, we are assured of being with them again some day. With all our love and prayers. PJ and Joyce

Jon and Tammy Parrack parract@yahoo.com Saturday September 30, 2006 at 10:36 PM
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Jon and Tammy Parrack

Paul and Joyce Jordan pljordanjr@aol.com Saturday September 30, 2006 at 10:34 PM
In times like this it makes you ever so thankful that your love ones know the Lord and we can rest in the assurance that we will be meeting them again some day. With all our love and prayers. PJ and Joyce Jordan.

Mark & Carla Booth, Zach & Chad BOOTH1331@zoominternet.NET Saturday September 30, 2006 at 10:30 PM
Bethany, Brent, Leann & Family, We have just been stunned all week and in constant prayer as we awaited the good news that never came. But the obituary was right, the good news did come - Ultimate Victory in Jesus. Carla and I have woken up in the middle of the night almost every nite this week thinking of & praying for you all. We know God will get you thru. I am glad we got to know Joe at the beach a couple of years ago. He was an excellent guitarist and I really enjoyed sitting on the beach and playing guitar with him. Let us know if there is anything we can do. Love in Christ, Mark, Carla, Zach & Chad.

Jake & Jessica Stapleton Saturday September 30, 2006 at 10:24 PM
Brent & Leigh Ann, Jessica & I are so very sorry for your loss. May the Lord speed healing to your family in their time of need, as we and countless others hold your family up in prayer this day.

Greg Creasy Saturday September 30, 2006 at 5:33 PM
Bethany and family, Words cannot express how much your family means to me personally. I pray that the God of peace will rest in your heart each day. Your church family at Pea Ridge is holding you up in prayer daily. We love you all.

The Cihota Family Saturday September 30, 2006 at 4:24 PM
Bithany, Your family has been in our prayers since first learning of the accident. Words can never say what we want you to hear. But do know Bithany that our thoughts and prayers will be with you, your baby and your family in the days ahead. You are blessed with strong family and God's love you at this difficult time. From our hearts to yours. Donna, Mike, Becky, Jennifer and our grandson Jeffery.

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