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1942 - 2009
 Age: 67
DILLENBECK, Lila M.
Paw Paw
Loving wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister and friend went to be with the Lord Friday evening, July 3, 2009 with her family at her side. Lila Marie Kidd was born April 15, 1942 in Lawrence, MI the daughter of the late Robert and Betty (Stewart) Kidd. She was united in marriage on August 15, 1959 to Fred Dillenbeck who survives. They would have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in August. Also surviving are her children, Marlys (Chris) Boysen of Paw Paw, Tonda (Brian) Mulligan of Blissfield, Curt (Lori) Dillenbeck of Lawrence, Betty (Todd) Terry of Paw Paw, Robin Kidd of Grand Rapids and Rebecca Dillenbeck of Paw Paw; grandchildren, Lindsey (Joseph) Wickett, Landry Boysen, Brett (Danielle) Dillenbeck, Natasha Mulligan, Justin, Kathleen and Austin Terry, Melissa Werth, Melody Gersey and Melina Manzie; three great grandchildren, Kendall and Kamryn Wickett and Kyler Dillenbeck; two brothers, James (Norma) Kidd of NC and Tom (Donna) Kidd of Lawton; sister, Debra (friend, Charles Mumford) Cubbage of Lawrence; many nieces, nephews and cousins. Lila leaves behind many family and friends who will miss her dearly. Lila was a dedicated member of Trinity Lutheran Church in Paw Paw. She was a volunteer at the Trinity Lutheran School where they donated a tree and bench in her honor. She helped establish the senior Monday meals program and active in the Martha Guild and many other aspects of the church. Lila was very intrigued with the research of her families' genealogy. She loved her family and spent all holidays preplanning wonderful meals. She dedicated her entire life to her family and made sure they were always happy. Family will receive friends Monday 5 to 7 p.m. at the Adams Funeral Home, Paw Paw. Funeral service will be held Tuesday, 11 at Trinity Lutheran Church, Paw Paw with Rev. Mark Whittaker officiating with a luncheon to follow. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to Trinity Lutheran Church or Hospice of Southwest Michigan. |
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There are currently 18 condolences.
Mike Tabor
Mike@taborhillarmory.com
Wednesday March 6, 2013 at
3:53 AM
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Mrs. Dillenbeck was one of the finest people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. God bless her, as well as all her family.
With all due respect: Mike Tabor
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Marlys Boysen
Monday October 26, 2009 at
11:36 AM
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I miss you mommy
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Kristen Howard
klh2639@hotmail.com
Monday September 14, 2009 at
1:56 AM
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Sorry for your Loss Uncle Fred, She will always be in our hearts and soul. Every night and day she is in our hearts and prayers.
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Kileen (Dillenbeck) Cassiday
kileenc@sbcglobal.net
Friday July 10, 2009 at
2:59 PM
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I have fond childhood memories of Aunt Lila. May GOD comfort and strengthen Uncle Fred and her children and grandchildren.
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Sharon (Dillenbeck) Strefling
Thursday July 9, 2009 at
5:16 PM
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Hello...I'm Tom's daughter. I have many fond memories of Aunt Lila and some wonderful visits to her house. My thoughts are prayers are with your family.
Sharon
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Jeanette King
jiking@tds.net
Thursday July 9, 2009 at
5:04 PM
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Fred and family. We were so sorry to hear about Lila's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My stepfather, Al Strefling sent us a copy of the obituary. Dick and Jeanette King
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Billie Brooks
Bjaynebrooks@aol.com
Tuesday July 7, 2009 at
9:09 PM
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My family had the honor of being neighbors with the Dillenbeck family for a few years. Both Mr & Mrs Dillenbeck were the kindest people and welcomed us as if we were family. Mrs Dillenbeck was an incredibly giving and caring person. Everyone who was touched by her spirit are luckier for it. Sincere sympathy to the entire Dillenbeck family.
Billie, Beau, Timmy (Brooks) & Kasey (Cooper)
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Joe Sperske
joesperske@aol.com
Tuesday July 7, 2009 at
3:38 PM
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Uncle Fred:
I was sorrow to hear about the passing of Lila. It seems like just yesterday that I attended your wedding. I will say a prayer for you and my Aunt Lila.
Love,
Joe
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Al Sperske
Tuesday July 7, 2009 at
3:19 PM
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Dear Uncle Fred, Sorry to hear that you have lost your wife. You were very kid to me in the past when I visited you and your family. She was a very generous and loving person.
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Pat VanZoeren
Monday July 6, 2009 at
8:10 PM
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My sympathies to Lila's family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. What a dynamo! A terrific organizer...she could accomplish anything, and was always thinking of others. And always with a smile. She will be missed.
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Jerri & Whitney Pursley
jerfaith@yahoo.com
Monday July 6, 2009 at
7:51 PM
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Dear Fred & Rebecca, we are so sorry for your loss. Lila was like an aunt to Whitney and we'll never forget all the wonderful things she did for us. She loved Trinity Lutheran School and church, she was always helping everyone. If you ever need anything we are here to help. We will miss Lila very much and she'll always have a special place in our hearts. You both are in our prayers and I know God will surround with his love and guide you. Always, Jerri & Whitney
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George Cubbage
Monday July 6, 2009 at
2:19 PM
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Fred and family,my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so grateful to have known Lila,she has warmed many hearts along her journey.
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Rita Gray
Monday July 6, 2009 at
11:40 AM
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Lila,
We'll miss you.
Rita, Kismet and Kai Gray
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Mitch and Bonnie Sailor
Monday July 6, 2009 at
8:06 AM
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Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
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Gloria (Kuehl) Rider
Sunday July 5, 2009 at
7:38 PM
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To Fred, and family my condolences. Lila, and I were neighbors when we were younger. She was a lot of fun, always a good listener, always a smile for everyone. Rest in Peace.
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Maxine Truemper
truemper@centurytel.net
Sunday July 5, 2009 at
11:43 AM
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My deepest condolences to you all - I'm so, so sorry. Dawn and I have lots of fond memories to keep Aunt Lila in our hearts. We shared lots of laughs and good times, along with dancing to "Herbie T and his Country Gentlemen" many Saturday nights!! Please know that we know how you feel, it's so hard to lose someone you love so much. Let's try and stay in touch! God bless you all . . . Aunt Lila was a wonderful person and I'm proud of all she accomplished and did for others.
Maxine
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Paul/Dawn Searles
Sunday July 5, 2009 at
11:18 AM
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Dear Family: I am so very sorry for your loss. It is just so very hard to say good-bye to those we love. May God be with you at this time. I have lots of memories of Aunt Lila and Uncle Fred: their house was always full of kids with lots of love to go around. I spent many nights/days with them growing up. There was always something going on: crafts, coloring, etc. I will always cherish those memories from my childhood. I'm just so sorry...
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Sue Stansbury
Sunday July 5, 2009 at
9:04 AM
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To Fred and the entire Dillenbeck family:
I was so sorry to hear about Lila. My son Jared remembers her being a dedicated part of the lunch room at Trinity, and that's where I remember her as well. Alway's smiling and enjoying so much working with the children. We thank her for her time and dedication to Trinity. May all of you find peace in the days, weeks, and months ahead. Know that we are praying for each and everyone of you. Lila was a gift to all of us.
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